Wednesday, June 29, 2005

Sifat, tamak haloba, dengki dan pentingkan diri

Tell me if anyone out there does not have one of the above. I like to read the problems and issues in the Utusan Malaysia column DCCK (Dicelah-celah kehidupan). Most of us have one or the other, but in different degree. I read about single women who are educated and holding good professional carreers yang tak teragak-agak bermadu demi untuk memenuhi permintaan nafsu kehidupan mereka. I sit and think, isn't this one kind of tamak? you want to have it all at the expense of another? Don't they ever think that they are blessed with kesenangan, kemewahan, kebendaan etc. and not thankful to Maha Penyayang? Praise Allah for what they have dan rezeki yang mencurah. Don't they think, that is their rezeki? perhaps itu saja rezeki mereka? Kenapa mesti tamak dan iri hati dengan alasan tidak complete kalau tak bersuami. Enjoy anugerah Allah, dengan apa yang ada and kalau bukan rezeki tu, memang tidak menjadi rezeki.
Just my thought for the day. To get away from the miserable feeling before my surgery :)

11 comments:

atenah said...

but there are ppl who are not as strong as you are, so Allah halalkan. yes, bermadu is hard but better that than beranak haram

Ely said...

mrs beach. so sorry i missed your previous posting.

firstly, insyaAllah, you will feel better. everything is for the better. u will be fine ok huggs.

memang bermadu susah. mcm org kata satu isteri dah susah nak jaga lagikan dua? tapikan, kalau dia mampu dan si isteri rela. its like a win win situation. i know that i am selfish and would nvr want to share my husband!

NANI SHAHABUDIN said...

what make us think that the husband is fully ours?
...Wallahualam

Arena said...

Aunty Mutiara, may everything regarding the operations turn out ok..Me pun ada another nagging sakit yang maybe kene jugak jumpa doc.. Sebenarnya dah tak larat keluar masuk hospital, but better safe than sorry kan.. Take care..

arisa said...

dear aunt mutiara. salam perkenalan. sometimes, it is not about to be greedy, it is about to be lonely..ALONE..some pompuan so scares to be ALONE...so do i, but, in my case, nasib baik i muda lagi..hehehehhehe....so..go for man hunt jer lah...

arisa said...

Luper, take care..jaga diri baik2, esp. after the operation.

atenah said...

HAPPY BIRTHDAY AUNTY MUTIARA!!!

do keep us posted on yr health, ya

Nong said...

Itu semua, tuhan punya kuasa. Hidup, mati, rezeki & juga jodoh ditangan tuhan...

BTW, Happy belated birthday! Take care.

Leyla Shuri said...

Birthday ke? La...ini shinkansen rosak, lambat sampai stasen.
Happy belated birthday and semoga segalanya Dipermudahkan.

AuntyN said...

Kak M, ada dapat my offline message?

Sunfloraa said...

AuntyM Happy belated birthday and good luck on your surgery. Insyallah semua berjalan dengan lancar.